OT: My wife has asbestosis cancer

In my opinion the best thing you can do is make everything as easy for her as possible. That’s helps more either way. It will make it easier to for her to pull through. If she doesn’t pull through well you helped her as much as possible and made the end better. Sorry to have to be morbid I hope it was the right thing to say. And don’t forget to take care of yourself too. The better you do the better she’ll do too.

Stay strong my friend, Pieter. I would have said almost what Bob just said. Spend time with her and not us for awhile. We love you and we’ll always be here when you want us.

Thinking of you both Pieter. Stay strong.

My thoughts are with you Pieter.

My wife was operated for lungcancer more the two years ago. We know what you are going through, our thoughts are with you and hope for the best. Jaap Bes.

Ah Pieter, I am very sorry to hear this. Wishing for the best for you and the Mrs. You’ve got my prayers.

I’m sorry to hear the news about your wife’s health, Pieter. Keep your chin up and remember you are surrounded by a network of friends around the globe wishing the best for your family. Many good vibes heading your way!

Terribly sorry to hear it, Pieter. Your wife and family are in our thoughts.

Sorry to hear this. I hope for the best for you and your wife.

My deepest sympathies. May the merciful one bless you both.

though on side you’re both lucky. (yeah kind of like how if you fall off a boat and don’t drown or get eaten by sharks you’re lucky but the guy that didn’t stay on the boat isn’t). Sounds like it was caught early. Which makes a really big diffrence, it’s why certain skin cancer kill less people since it’s outside you see it sooner. So thought I’d throw that one out there. Lots of people don’t find out they have this kind of cancer untill they’ve had it for a lot longer then she could have. So good job on getting it found quickly.

My wife passed away tonight

My deepest sympathies to you and yours.

Pieter , There is nothing I can really say, just know in your heart that you are not alone. My deepest sympathies.

Oh Pieter, so sorry to read this.  My deepest condolences to you.

I’m very sorry for your loss.  I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers.

I am very sorry for your loss Pieter.

Pieter, so sorry … heart goes out to you and your family.

I’m sorry Pieter

I’m so sorry Pieter.  My thoughts go out to you and your family.